May 19, 2025
Tommy Lee's wife Brittany Furlan has appealed to musician Ronnie Radke to stop defaming her over a confrontation from her husband's end.
Taking to TikTok on Sunday, Furlan addressed the Falling In Reverse rockstar's claims that she was seduced by a catfish posing as him online.
Furlan, 38, began her seven-minute video by admitting to the exchange, explaining that it began during a "tough time" in her six-year marriage to Mötley Crüe rocker Tommy Lee, 62. The video also comes on the heels of a TMZ report that the couple is separating over Lee's drinking issues.
"Obviously, I’m in a hotel right now. I’ve been going through a really tough time in my marriage, which was none of anyone’s f****** business, but he’s made it everyone’s business," Furlan said in the TikTok, referring to Radke, 41.
She went on to explain that after receiving messages from someone she believed to be Radke on April 28, the Snapchat user "started trying to seduce me."
Furlan said she didn’t save any of the messages because she "didn’t want to be shady” and is “in a vulnerable place," which Radke's earlier post about the catfish drama contradicts as he shared a screenshot of “the only message she saved” from the alleged catfish, an NSFW text allegedly supplied by Furlan.
"He says this isn’t him. That’s fine, whatever. I don’t give a f***," Furlan continued in her TikTok. She then showed alleged Instagram DMs between herself and the real Radke before asking him to leave her alone.
"It’s a catfish, cool. I got catfished. Why are you still harassing me?" Furlan then said. "Why are you sending me hundreds of messages? Why are you trolling me? I don’t give a f***. I unfollowed you. Leave me alone. That’s it."
She also addressed Radke’s claim that Lee confronted him over the catfish situation with alleged threats.
"Basically, I told my husband everything," Furlan said. "I said, you know, ‘I’ve been talking to whoever I thought this was on Snapchat — he says it’s not him, cool, whatever — ‘cause I’m a good person. I mean, I’m not a good person for talking to someone while married. I’ve been going through a lot in my marriage. No excuse, whatever."
"I come clean to my husband, my husband freaks out, messages him, that’s how this all started," she added.
Furlan concluded her video with a plea for Radke to stop discussing her marriage and the relationship with the alleged catfish publicly.
"You’ve blown up my whole life on social media," she told Radke. "This is embarrassing for me, embarrassing for my husband. This whole f****** thing is embarrassing. I’ve been going through struggling with s*** at home. I’m in a f****** hotel. Like, leave us f****** alone, bro. Like, if you want people to be obsessed with you, like, I don't know, get another f****** hobby, dude. This is just some serious narcissist s***. I’m done. Anyone can think of it what they will. All good."
"I've had enough," the former Vine star added in the caption. "He's been harassing me for two weeks. He's been sent three cease and desists and has not listened. For the final time: Leave me alone Ronnie." Both parties have lawyers involved at this point.
Lee also vaguely publicly responded to the ongoing drama in his marriage in an Instagram post on May 16 that read, "Who’s been catfished?"
Meanwhile, Radke continues to clear his name from the catfish drama and insisted in a TikTok that “the only reason" he went public with any of the drama is because Lee “will not stop yelling at me and stuff."
"Imagine you grow up looking up to somebody like Tommy Lee," Radke said, "and then all of a sudden out of nowhere he goes, 'You’re f****** my wife.’ And I’m like, ‘What. I have no idea what you’re talking about.’"
He also followed this video up with another TikTok, this time attempting to prove that he has never had Snapchat downloaded on his phone.